Resilience!!

It doesn’t matter…if our car broke down in the middle of the road, if the insurance costs became higher than our paychecks, if a burglar just managed to ransack our house & if the competition we so prepared for, failed...!

It doesn't matter...if our dinner got burned, if we lost on our most desired dream job, if we always got late...and failed time & again in love & health...The power of belief on which we all breed; the certain knowledge we have of our own; the enduring will which never gives in & the little stress that we must take, helps us overcome all the hardships, and gets us the very faith that 'everything' shall someday, one-day, be all right..........

"The harder we're hit by life, the stronger we get!!" And it’s our resilience that always helps, bring us BACK!!

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Q & A

There it is, Homer. The cleverest thing you'll ever say and nobody heard it 
- Marge Simpson
 
1. Life is…?
# Life is a lesson learned in humility.
2. Have any scars?
# Yes, scar is my synonym.
3. What is your favorite Disney movie?
# Pirates of the Caribbean
4. What music do you listen to?
# Any which soothes my ears.
5. What do you want more than anything right now?
# A good gadget
6. Who do you miss?
# I miss Flint - my little furry godzilla
7. What is your most prized possession?
# my books
8. What is your favorite smell?
# a: the smell of the wet earth; b:the smell of a new parchment; c: the smell of vanilla ice-cream
9. Do you any phobias?
# Heights
10. A movie you want to see again and again?
# Wrong question to a movie buff. Too many on the list.
11. What did you see yourself doing 5 years ago, today?
# Studying.
12. What’s your favorite cologne / perfume?
# Jovan white musk and Julien d' Irvy
13. What kind of hair do you like on the opposite sex?
# rough spikes
14. Where can you see yourself being proposed at?
# in some temple
15. A hottie that makes you go weak?
# Bradley Cooper
16. What is your favorite pizza topping?
#Jalapenos
17. If you could eat anything right now, what would it be?
# Pani-puri
18. Who is the last person, you made mad?
# my cook
19. Do you speak another language?
# Yes
20. What was the first gift someone ever gave you (of the opposite sex)?
# a milk bottle gifted by my dad.
21. Does anyone like you?
# Yes
22. Are you a virgin?
# Yes
23. Favorite clothing designers?
# Sabyasachi Mukherjee & Neeta Lulla
24. What’s your dream car?
# Lamborghini- Gallarado or Nissan Skyline GT-R, hands down!! 
25. How many songs you have on your ipod?
# Hardly. Needs an update :(
26. What is one of your dreams?
# to feel, to think, to act, to love - without the asterisk mark**
27. A song that makes you dance?
# "Show me how you Burlesque" by Christina Aguilera
28. What is your favorite number?
# "Rolling in the Deep" -Adele
29. Say a number from 1 to 100?
# One
30. Who is better, blondes or brunettes?
# brunettes obviously, I am one eh!! ;)
31. What according to you is the worst month of the year?
# March
32. What annoys you the most?
# exhibitionists, snipe-snouts and perverts
33. Your favorite state in India?
# Jammu & Kashmir
34. What is your weakness?
# Transparency
35. Where do you want to live?
# In reality
36. Best friends?
# Aman Khailani, Afrin Randeria, Sharada Mahalingam
37. Ever done a prank call?
# Yes, to my own mom..shuusshhh
38. What are you doing while filing these questions?
# Flabbergasted
39. Your favorite read in fiction?
# Harry Potter Series
40. What do you get complimented the most about?
# for being a trier
41. What would you do if alcohol became illegal?
# All water's under the bridge.
42. What do you want for your birthday?
# Peace
43. How many kids do you want?
# one by birth and one by adoption
44. A second name you would love that you wish you was named as?
# Alankrita - it means "sense"
45. Do you wish on stars or fallen eyelashes?
# Yes, I do.
46. When did you cry the last?
# I am a major weeper.. a good movie, a good book, a soulful song, rolls eyes**
47. Do you like your handwriting?
# Yes
48. What is your favorite non-vegetarian food?
# Green curry with bombay duck.
49. What are your hard habits? 
# Orderliness
50. What’s your most embarrassing moment?
# all my open-house sessions..hahahaha
51. An animal you represent the most is?
# wolf
52. Have you ever told a secret you swore to never tell?
# yes.
53. Do looks matter?
# yes, if I have to get intimate, they do ;) 
54. How do you release your anger?
# the only thing I do is, RELEASE ANGER!
55. Where is your second home?
# yet have to discover
56. Do you trust others easily?
# I don't.
57. What was your favorite toy as a child?
# my munchkin
58. What are the first numbers in your cell phone?
# my granny
59. Do you wear a ring or any jewel constantly?  If so what is it?
# Yes. two. 
60. Do you use sarcasm?
# LOL. Heck No!!
61.  You are lazy at?
# Shopping for someone else ;)
62. What do you look for in a guy or girl?
# he must have a good perspective to things
63. You feel thankful for /to ?
# I feel thankful to all those people who said a NO to me, it's because of them that I learned to do things by myself.
64. Your favorite proverb?
A man of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds.
65. Are you a girl punk/emo/prep/ or geek?
# Simple is silly.
66. What’s your favorite ice-cream flavor?
# Custard-apple with vanilla
67. When was the last time you went on a date?
# Four years back in the month of May.
68. What are your favorite colors?
# Red. Purple. Black. Golden.
69. What is your favorite vacation spot?
# Conrad Maldives and Southern England
70. Love is…?
#  Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. Love stays. Love grows.
71. What are you listening right now?
# Fireworks - katy perry ;)
72. Last thing you ate?
# boiled corn
73. Last person you talked on to the phone?
# my dad
74. The first thing you notice in the opposite sex?
# approach
75. Favorite thought provoking song?
# MJ - Heal the World - no doubt!!
76. Favorite part of your body is?
# my torso, laughs*
77. Favorite drink is?
# tea with lemon grass
78. Favorite cuisine is?
# konkani food of course
79. Zodiac signs you are compatible or non-compatible with?
# smirks** compatible everyone except Sagittarians
80. What is your favorite sport?
# rugby and cricket ;)
81. Your hair color is?
#  Coffee Brown
82. What turns you on in the opposite sex?
# good physique, mirror cracking smile, deep eyes and clean sense of humor- no slapstick!
83. What turns you off in the opposite sex?
# non-decisiveness, insensibility, insensitivity and probably bad breath
84. Kisses or Hugs?
# Hugs
85. One song that defines you is?
# It's a climb - miley cyrus
86. Favorite day of the year is?
# Begins on September 14th post- 6 o'clock
87. Are you to shy to ask someone out?
# Never
88. Last movie you have seen in a theatre?
# Amazing Spider Man
89. Favorite author is?
# J.K Rowling, Jane Austen, Mitch Albom and Carolyn Keene
90. A book you would re-read all the time?
# Harry Potter and the Order of Phoenix
91. Try to close your eyes and answer what did you see?
# a cup of tea - O yes!! hunger overrides everything else :P
92. Food you are crazy about?
# Rice with Dhanshak and grilled eggs.
93. A desperate desire?
# to watch a strip-tease in a pub & get sloshed for one day!!
94. Love. Sex. Dream. Freedom. Money. Family. Respect. – Sequence as per priority.
# Family. Respect. Money. Love. Dream. Sex. Freedom.
95. Strengths and Weakness
# strengths: pro-social, interactive, orderly & sane
  weakness: short-tempered, furtive, mellifluous
96. If psychology would not exist, what field you would be right now in? 
# Hospitality
97. With Whom You want to spend at least a day of your life?
# With any person on this planet who has faced loss and needs a friend. My email id is vinitamalde@gmail.com. One can officially reach me.
98. You are addicted to?
# people who use their tongue for a good cause
99. One quote you stand by all your life?
# To keep a lamp burning, one must keep oiling it - Mother Teresa
100. Have you lost on love?
# If there is anything I have lost then its my false schema of love. Not love. Love stays. If it doesn't, it was just your failed belief.
101. Any regrets you have in your life?
# Yes. The ones whom I caused suffering in my process to learn.
102. Candid confessions?
# Yes, I want to eat, eat, eat, eat and not put on!! What?? Hunger, Sex, Aggression- man's basic drives!! don't give that look, whoever is reading :P
103. A place you would like to settle in?
# Aamchi Mumbai ;) nowhere else!!
104. Your favorite cartoon character is?
# Dee Dee from Dexter's Laboratory and Johny Bravo <3
105. A phrase or word you use the most?
# Is that right?? ; Pathetic; I mean, srsly? ;  Come on!!; Merlin's Pants; Holy Shittt!!
106. Most likely to be arrested for?
# Squashing my sister and kissing her to my heart's content.
107. If you go invisible for a day, the naughtiest thing you would do?
# I would tear all my sister's clothes, pee on her bed, send texts to all her guy friends - asking them to hook up and scare her to death. hahahaha
108. If you get only 3 wishes by a genie, what would you ask for?
# 1. I need a wit that is beyond measure.
   2. I need a cure for every disease discovered in our anatomy.
   3. I need an elixir supply for a lifetime.
for everything else, there is a mastercard :P
109. A movie character you love the most?
# Captain Jack Sparrow - Pirates Series
110. If you would have the power to create a law, what would it be?
# smirks** I think the world has enough laws already. I would want a power to enact each.
111. Most Hated Behavior?
# Infliction of any form of pain, criticism, ridicule, dejection- made to others- with a purpose of self-satisfaction- is cliche according to me.
112. Any true Life adventure you had, or want to have?
#  my life has been an under-rated adventure
113. An Unforgettable moment?
# I was once kidnapped to a temple located in hills and was asked out by somebody, who changed my life forever in the most beautiful way, ever since.
114. You look the hottest in?
# Oh plz.. I AM hot!!
115. What is your favorite flower?
# Peonies
116. What would you consider is your best quality?
# Resilience
117. A memory you would never remove from your pensive?
# together is a strong word. i will keep all memories which has this word.
118. 3 words that define you?
# Water. Earth. Fire.
119. What was the last lie you told?
# I told my best friend, that I am not tired. which I was.
120. If you could kiss anyone one in this room who would it be?  
# my sister!! I love kisshin my munchkin. I'm obsessed with her. I hv crazy fits to marry her.
121. What celebrity do you have a crush on? 
# BC!! Bradley Cooper ;)
122. When have you loved some one who has not loved you back? 
# It's Flint. That tamed dinosaur, seems to have bigger interests. sobs**
123. When have you broken your mother’s heart? 
# Tried most of the times. My mum was too smart or too sweet to not notice or to forget it, though ;)
124. What feature/trait of yours are you self-conscious about? 
# table-manners. i can't eat without dropping. or. i like to feed my surroundings.
125. What flaw is enough to cause you to break off a relationship? 
# Improper handling both physical and emotional. it comes down to- lack of CARE!
126. When you are trying to impress people what personality trait do you hide?
# Say, IF I want to make an impression, would I not be pretending anyways?
127. Would you still love your significant other if he or she gained 100 pounds? 
# Yes I will. Nevertheless, for anything that can be controlled and is taken for granted, I'd punch my  beloved with equal intensity, if efforts to minimize are unmet. my love is not bookish.
128. What action from your past would put you in jail if law enforcement ever found out?
# Next question please
129. If you were the opposite sex for one day, what would you do?
# I would have to try hard to act normal. Being stupid comes natural to this specie.
130. What would be your guilty pleasure? 
# ;)
131. What is the worst thing about being a grown-up?
# You land up collecting a lot of masks.
132. When is the longest you have gone without taking a bath?
# Last September, while I was returning from Chandigarh.
133. If you and someone else were the only people alive on earth, who would you pick the other person to be?
# I would pick someone who can make me laugh, no matter what. Obviously not a girl. hehe
134. What fear keeps you up at night? 
# Asking an owl about fears at night eh??
135. In what way are you inadequate? 
# I miss on my family, who'd make the place I live in today, feel like a home.
136. Assuming every man/woman has their price, what is yours?
# I can't assume this. Mediocre. 
137. Whom do you think would be a bad date for you, from your friends? 
#  I call him Oreo
138. What do you trust the most? 
# I trust my instincts the most
139. What prejudice do you harbor? 
# I would prefer to grow as a woman of paradoxes than a woman of prejudices.
140. If you had only 24 hours left to live, what would you do?
# I would love. love until it hurts. so that there is less hurt and only more love.
141. A fairy tale you wish was yours?
# Thumbelina or The little mermaid
142. Favorite childhood program?
# Small Wonder; Full House and Lizzie McGuire
143. The best part about a Sunday is?
# it is not a Monday :P
144. Mornings or Nights?
# Nocturnal me. so obv nights.
145. Chocolate you love the most?
# Toblerone and Hershey's Dark Chocolate
146. Your role model?
# J.K.Rowling
147. 3 words you’d always live by?
#  Love. Learn. Forgive- but, be wise, to not forget.
148. What causes the most suffering?
# What causes most suffering - is what we say to ourselves about what happens. 
-Albert Ellis
149. If you had one super-power, what would that be?
# The power to HEAL
150. Are these questions enough to know you?
# Nope.

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