Resilience!!

It doesn’t matter…if our car broke down in the middle of the road, if the insurance costs became higher than our paychecks, if a burglar just managed to ransack our house & if the competition we so prepared for, failed...!

It doesn't matter...if our dinner got burned, if we lost on our most desired dream job, if we always got late...and failed time & again in love & health...The power of belief on which we all breed; the certain knowledge we have of our own; the enduring will which never gives in & the little stress that we must take, helps us overcome all the hardships, and gets us the very faith that 'everything' shall someday, one-day, be all right..........

"The harder we're hit by life, the stronger we get!!" And it’s our resilience that always helps, bring us BACK!!

Friday, December 2, 2011

Learnings

There are some things you learn best in calm, and some in storm.  ~Willa Cather
  


  1. Life is a chessboard.
  2. Falling in love is like jumping off a cliff- either you fall, or you fly.
  3. Kissing someone and letting you be kissed, is not the same thing.
  4. The higher you build your walls, the harder it is to escape your castle in the air.
  5. If you pretend long enough, you believe that it’s true.
  6. Be careful what you wish for, you might just make it come true.
  7. Losing a figment of your imagination hurts more than anyone will ever know.
  8. When someone tells you that they love you, don’t question it.
  9. Calling someone ugly doesn't make you any prettier, calling someone dumb doesn't make you any smarter and bitching about someone doesn't exempt you from the line of fire.
  10. The only thing permanent is change.
  11. First impressions last
  12. The Mirror is magical. It shows you only what you want to see.
  13. It is impossible for us to follow our animal instinct as we have been both gifted & cursed with a conscience.
  14. Reality sucks, but you have to face it sooner or later.
  15. Objects in the mirror are closer than they appear.
  16. Sometimes, love and hate are so finely intertwined that you don’t know which is which…
  17. "Sorry" is not a band-aid, It’s just a word.
  18. When you share your secrets, dreams, desires, fears with someone, you're granting that person the power to hurt you.
  19. Showing emotion is not a sign of weakness, it proves that you're human.
  20. When you break up with someone, and there was nothing there to break, you end up breaking yourself.
  21. Scars keep you real.
  22. A man who tells you that he never thinks about sex is a hypocrite.
  23. You tend to hate those who remind you of yourself.
  24. You never follow up on an apology with a ‘but’
  25. Revenge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
  26. Crying earns you pity. Not Love, Pity.
  27. If you twitch while your eyebrows are being done, there will be blood.
  28. Silence DOES speak louder than words. Silence hurts too.
  29. College triumphs school. Rat’s piss!!
  30. If you don't believe in Happy Endings, you have nothing left to live for.
  31. The day you get glasses, a bad haircut and are looking your worst, you will meet “the man of your dreams”!!
  32. Hugs heal.There are different types of hugs.
  33. You don't have the right to judge someone you don't even know.
  34. “Not feeling” doesn't really get you anywhere.
  35. Everybody has scars. Some parade them, others protect them.
  36. You can love many people in many different ways.
  37. Guys look hotter in shirts.Black nail polish hides dirt.
  38. What was meant to be will always find its way.
  39. The liquid takes the shape of the container it is poured in. Don’t be a liquid.
  40. Sex doesn't complete a relationship. It complements it.
  41. The older you get, the more masks you collect.
  42. Friendship is an experience. The time it begins influencing or causing one’s actions, it is as good as a scientific term.
  43. Sometimes to win, you need to lose.
  44. Every ‘bitch’ has her day.
  45. The person who arouses your mind doesn't arouse your body and the person who arouses your body doesn't arouse your mind. And if that’s an irony, so am I!!
  46. A mug fills drops by drop. Don’t lose the person who holds that mug for you.
  47. There is dark, there is light. There is a choice. Always.
  48. The opposite of chocolate is heartbreak. The synonym of chocolate is what you like.
  49. Never trust anything that can think for itself if you can't see where it keeps its brain.
  50. To defeat the darkness out, defeat the darkness inside.
Learning, it's an ongoing process. Each who comes our way, teaches us a new lesson.
Learning is futile, if it meets resistance.
Learning is conquered, if it meets experience.
Learning is lethal, if it remains impenetrable.
Learning is life, if only applied :)

“Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.”
-Albus Dumbledore

1 comment:

  1. So many good things to learn from this post... and very well written...
    Thinking about your mind and feeling while you writing this...

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